Probabil ca multi vor interpreta acest topic in diferite feluri, multi se vor revolta, altii il vor accepta fara prea multe comentarii. E nevoie de ceva mai multa deschidere catre ceea ce este nou si de ceva mai multa putere de acceptare. Cert este ca ideea sexului in trei, ca modalitate de a diversifica viata sexuala a unui cuplu nu mai este chiar o noutate. Multi il practica cu succes, fara a se face niciun fel de valva in jurul lor. E alegerea lor si, atata timp cat pe ei nu ii deranjeaza, nu vad de ce sa ii deranjeze pe altii.
Cuplu casatorit, oameni cu facultate, situatie materiala relativ buna cauta un cuplu/o fata pentru sex ? acesta ar fi portretul robot al celor care fac anunturi de acest fel. Parerea mea ar fi ca cei care au o oarecare pregatire intelectuala sunt mai deschisi la nou decat cei cu nivel de educatie scazut. Omul pregatit intelectual cauta mereu alternative, solutii, situatii noi, incitante. Unii ar spune ca acolo unde un cuplu doreste prezenta alcuiva nu mai este vorba de sentiment, acolo nu mai exista iubire, nu mai exista pasiune, e doar o incercare de a salva ceva ce nu mai merge, apeland la solutii etreme.
Eu as spune ca, dimpotriva, intr-un astfel de cuplu exista mult mai multa incredere, comunicare, apropiere, cunoasterea buna a celuilalt. Nu ajungi sa ai o relatie in trei pana nu discuti inainte despre asa ceva, pana nu analizezi care sunt implicatiile emotionale si pana nu decizi impreuna ca merge facut si asa ceva.
Implicatii exista cu siguranta, iar orice lucru nou poate avea consecinte benefice sau nu. Deprinde de multi factori si de particularitatile fiecarui cuplu in parte, de aceea e greu sa generalizezi.
In timp ce sex-ul in trei este condamnat in general de societatea noastra conservatoare din motive "morale", multe cupluri experimenteaza acest lucru si, exact ca in cazul unei casnicii, pe care toti o accepta dar care se poate termina catastrofal, rezultatul poate fi bun sau prost.
Da, sunt o multime de probleme pe care sexul in trei le ridica:
- siguranta: ne e frica sa ne intilnim cu straini, nu stii niciodata cu cine ai de-a face (droguri, boli, lume interlopa, si o lista enroma de riscuri )
- compatibilitate: e nevoie de ceva intimitate, cunoastere, inainte sa ajungi in pat...
- neimplicare (just sex), adica trebuie sa fie clar care e treaba, prietenie, sex, fun...dar atat...
- oare o astfel de fantezie pusa in practica nu ne va afecta relatia noastra de cuplu? (in acest moment zicem ca nu, ni se pare excitant, dar nu stii niciodata cum e sa vezi o fantezie transpusa in realitate)
Personal, mi-ar placea sa am o astfel de experienta. Sotului meu, nici nu mai zic, am discutat deja despre acest lucru. Eu, ca femeie, ma simt atrasa de ideea de a experimenta sexul in trei cu o alta femeie. Atat timp cat pe mine nu ma deranjeaza lucrul acesta, ce crede altcineva nici nu ma intereseaza. E puterea mea de a face acest lucru si decizia nu ma sperie. Din pacate insa, desi internetul e plin de anunturi cu fete care isi ofera disponibilitatea pentru asa ceva, aceste anunturi ma lasa rece. Sa fac lucrul acesta alaturi de soul meu si de o alta femeie inseamna pentru mine ca toate aceste trei persoane sa fim pe acelasi plan. Trei intr-o relatie de moment cu tot ce inseamna acest lucru : comunicare, prietenie, respect, egalitate. Ideea de a face acest lucru pe bani e singura care ma degusta.
Da, as accepta un sex un trei cu cineva pe care sa o consider prietena. O femeie ca noi, educata si deschisa la minte, care sa nu se ingrozeasca in fata ideii de a experimenta ceva nou. O femeie care sa ia totul de la viata. O femeie care sa aiba copii ca noi, care sa aiba o situatie materiala c cat de cat similara cu a noastra, care sa aiba serivici si responsabilitati ca noi, dar care uneori sa isi doreasca sa lase toate acestea in urma, pentru a evada, doar pentru placerea ei, intr-o experienta noua, benefica si pentru ea, asa cum e si pentru noi. As petrece o vacanta in trei, de exemplu, undeva unde o zi, sau doua, sau trei, tot ce fac sa fie pentru mine, pentru puterea mea de a trece prin viata incercand totul si nu cramponandu-ma de rigori morale si de prejudecati.
Ma intreb daca sunt singura care gandesc in felul acesta. Ma intreb daca sunt singura mamica care nu se teme de experiente de genul acesta. Voi ce parere aveti, ideea aceasta vi se pare incitanta sau va intriga sau va dezgusta ? Simt nevoia sa vorbesc despre alta cu alte femei, scrieti-mi aici sau chiar pe adresa de email curioscurioasa2014@yahoo.com (desi nu stiu daca e corect sa dau aici o adresa de email)
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